Hair Problems :(

As some of you probably know, I am always having the WORST hair problems! I always want to change it and try something new, but I never know what to do. It's so hard to find the perfect short haircut, too. And I have yet to find it. I just can't bring myself to do something more daring. And at the same time, I want to grow my hair out :/ it's so tough, and I am terribly impatient when it comes to hair. I want to start wearing my shorter hair more often rather than my extensions, but I haven't gotten my hair done in awhile, so it's grown into a place where I don't like it and it doesn't look good. Hence why I've been wearing the extensions so often.
Also, I would love to change up the color a bit (not a different color, but a different shade of red) so that I'll force myself not to wear the long hair all the time ;) I wish I could change the color completely just because I get so bored often, but that won't be happening for awhile. Gotta keep the red.
Anyways, I am desparate for a super cute/not too short/perfect for my features bob or short haircut! I have been on a search forever and can't seem to find the right cut.

I like both of these, but I'm not sure they would look as good on me as they do on them! If I got the Scarlett Johannson cut, then of course I would keep my side bangs. And for the Katie Holmes cut, it looks amazing on her but I have never had straight across bangs, and I'd be scared of how they would look on me. Also, I would keep the length a little longer than what she has.

I dunno. I gotta keep lookin'!

xo Carly